It's when you yourself is independent of others - the aura is there and some women will latch on -
You try hitting her - Kidding, I cannot advocate that - What would you do differently now?
Exactly, she was all sweat and what not, then we got married. That was like a liscence to kill. Just got worse and worse for awhile. After a couple years I set her straight. Then it stopped.
I don't let it get that far. Act up? Hit the bricks kid. I don't have the patience or wearwithall to deal with that crap anymore. I know better, not all people act like that.
I'm my own number 1. Let there be no doubt in her mind. I'm not going to be unhappy.
I also support myself financially, I couldn't or at least didn't think I could support myself before.
Thats another thing I'm worried about. I have a house, 3 cars that are paid for. I go to work everyday, bust my butt. If I marry a girl, I'm giving away half of everything I own, and agreeing to support her for the rest of my natural born life.
How is that fair??
You know how Oji was talking about having an exit strategy for his business plan? "If you don't have an exit strategy then you haven't fully thought it through."
That's how I see any relationship with a girl. The guy is gonna get cornholed on the exit. No ifs and or buts about it. Pre-nups mean diddly squat in CA.